We added two new stops for our upcoming trip: Elk City, Oklahoma, and Plain City, Ohio. We also have the complete conference information for Straffordville, Ontario, and Lowell, Indiana. For detailed information on each conference, our schedule is on our website.

It is a blessing when you pre-register because it enables our hosts to know how many to expect and helps us know the quantity of our resources to bring. If you haven't done so, we would greatly appreciate it (conference registration contacts are listed on the flyer).

September 5-6th - Jefferson City, Missouri
September 12-13th - Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
September 15th - Elk City, Oklahoma
September 18th - Jonesboro, Arkansas
September 19-20th - Memphis, Tennessee
September 22nd - Huntsville, Alabama
September 23rd - Panama City, Florida
September 26-27th - Charlottesville, Virginia
October 3-4th - Moncton, New Brunswick
October 6th - Magog, Quebec
October 10-11th - Shelby, North Carolina
October 13th - Somerset, Kentucky
October 14th - Lowell, Indiana
October 15th - Plain City, Ohio
October 16th - Flint, Michigan
October 17-18th - Straffordville, Ontario

We'll list other conferences as they are scheduled. Please watch our website for the most up-to-date speaking schedule and information.

This morning I was alone driving about thirty minutes to pick up Steve, who was returning a truck we had rented. I was reciting out loud to myself several large sections of Scripture that I have memorized. When I came to Colossians 3:16—"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom . . ."—I was reminded of two e-mails we had recently received asking us about Scripture memory and Bible copying in our family. Here is what they asked:

"I have noticed a trend your family has that involves Scripture memorization. Do you have any information regarding how one would go about memorizing Scripture? I have always had difficulty in this area and would like to know if there is any specific methodology or steps that you use to accomplish this." Mom 1

"I was wondering what your Bible copying involves? We were involved with Awanas for about four to five years, but the older my son gets the more he fights with learning the verses in the sections. He does have a lot of trouble keeping things memorized, so I think he gets frustrated with himself and gives up. So I'm looking for some way he can learn to memorize without the pressure, and get him back to being eager to learn more about God." Mom 2

How can the Word of Christ dwell in me richly if I haven't memorized it? I read my Bible personally every morning. We are also in the Word daily as a family in the evenings, and Steve reads a chapter of Scripture to me at night. I can think about the Word and meditate on it from those interactions with it, but what is dwelling in me richly is what I have memorized.

"Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee" (Psalms 119:11). Once again, to have the Word hidden in my heart is going to mean that I have it memorized. It is accurate, and it is true, and it is continually available in my heart to direct me. This is important not only in my life but also in my children's lives. We want them to have the Word hidden in their hearts, dwelling there richly.

The simplest way our family memorizes Scripture is what I might term the whiteboard-mealtime-grace method. After we say grace before lunch and dinner, we recite a portion of Scripture together before we begin to eat. We have a whiteboard hanging in the dining room where the current Scripture is written down for us to read until it is memorized. The verses on our board now are Matthew 5:3-12. A couple of the previous passages were 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 and Galatians 5:22-24.

Just by reading the verses two times a day as our family sits down to meals, we memorize them usually in a few days to weeks. The children learn them before Steve and I do. There is no pressure on anyone, and everyone—even the youngest—will eventually know all the verses on the whiteboard. We leave the set of verses up even after everyone knows them well so they become very ingrained. At that point, the Lord will put a new section of Scripture on Steve's heart to put on the whiteboard on which we will begin to work.

I believe the key to Scripture memory is having it scheduled every day. That is one reason why our whiteboard-mealtime-grace Scripture method is effective. We work on it twice a day, day after day, and in this case it doesn't even feel like we are memorizing. For other memorizing, if we will work on it for a set amount of time and do it consistently, we make good memorizing progress.

When our children were younger, I helped them memorize during one-on-one time we would have together. Once at a homeschool convention, we had purchased some books from Scripture Memory Fellowship to help guide me with our preschoolers' memorizing. Each book had illustrations and a verse in large print. Since the children couldn't read, I could hold the book open so that they could see the illustration and teach them the verse. Eventually they could say all the verses from the book by me simply flipping the pages so they could see the illustration. When we had completed memorizing all the verses in a particular book, it was with great joy that the child would recite his verses for the family at our family Bible time. We kept our preschoolers memorizing individual verses rather than larger portions of Scripture.

In teaching the preschoolers the verse, I would repeat the whole verse five times through. Then I would take the first phrase and say it five times. I would ask the child to try saying it on his own. If he couldn't get started, I would say the verse again five times and ask him again. Sometimes I would say the phrase with him or start him off with the first couple of words. We would keep at it through the five to ten minutes that we had set aside for doing memory work.

The next day, I would start by asking the child if he could remember what he had learned the day before. If he remembered it, I would have him repeat it five times for me. If he couldn't remember it, I would help him get started and see if he could go on by himself. We would work toward the child saying the phrase five times alone. If he couldn't say any of the verse from the previous day, we would begin again where we had begun the day before.

Once the child had the first phrase down, I would move to the next phrase, saying it five times and seeing if he could say it. If he could, he would repeat it five times. If he couldn't, I would say it for him again. When he could say the new phrase by himself, I would have him go back to the beginning of the verse, say his first phrase and add the new one on. This would again take practice. We always worked in groupings of five—five times with no mistakes before we moved on to the next step. Once the child has a verse memorized, in addition to learning new verses, we will review the previously-learned verses.

For our children who are older than preschool age, Steve talks with the child, and together they pick out a section of Scripture to memorize. Often it is a whole chapter once they are older. Because I had done Scripture memory with the children before they could read on their own, they learned my method of memorizing that they could utilize, or they could experiment with other ways themselves. When the children were younger, I would be the one to put time into the schedule for them to do Scripture memory. As they have gotten older, Steve has wanted them to choose Scripture memory on their own so they are to work it into their personal time.

Memorizing Scripture is often viewed as a difficult discipline by Christians--one that they would like to do but find themselves avoiding. Our family has discovered that it can be done quite simply by repeating verses when we gather at the table to eat our meals. We also help our pre-readers with their memorizing. If we set aside time to memorize, we will have memorizing success and find that it isn't as hard as we think. It is difficult only if we haven't invested the necessary time into it. May we be like the Psalmist and help our children to do this as well: "I will delight myself in thy statutes: I will not forget thy word" (Psalms 119:16). Next month we will look a little more into Scripture memory.

Teri Maxwell

Written by Teri Maxwell, co-author of Managers of Their Homes, Managers of Their Chores, Keeping Our Children's Hearts, Just Around the Corner (Vols. 1 & 2), and author of Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit.

Teri Maxwell is the mother of eight children and began homeschooling in 1985. Four of her children have graduated from homeschool, and one is married. Teri is a homeschool conference speaker and has been writing monthly articles of encouragement for moms since 1990.

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To begin, if you haven't read the full series on Protecting Against Deception, we would encourage you to do that (Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, and Part 7). Now, as we continue our Dad's Corner series on deceptions to which believers fall prey, let's investigate another one.

Let me give you some clues to help you identify this one. What word is frequently used when describing a motive to do something? What word has amassed enumerable stolen hours in its treasure chest? What word equals Balaam's secret weapon? What word shouts victoriously over ministry, witnessing, Bible reading, or service every time? What word separates the modern church from the church for which Jesus died? What word is likely quite responsible for the modern church not being "salt and light" to a dying world?

Merriam-Webster defines this word as: "what provides amusement or enjoyment; specifically : playful often boisterous action or speech." Its synonym friends are: jest, sport, game, and play. By now you likely know the word that is the world's most treasured friend—"FUN." Perhaps there is more time wasted in fun's honor than for any reason. It is important to clarify, we are referring to those activities that are not sinful in themselves, but are enjoyable, pleasurable, entertaining and steal our time away from pursuits that are edifying and productive.

A Google search for fun turns up 667 million sites one can visit if he lacks for fun. Even though the Bible is the most treasured and printed book of all time, it only returns 118 million Google sites referencing it. Sadly, fun's popularity far outweighs the Bible's.

What does the Bible say about "Friend" fun? That is a slight challenge because the word "fun" does not appear in the Bible. We must begin by looking at the definition of fun, which we saw earlier was "what provides amusement or enjoyment." Webster's dictionary defines amusement as entertaining. In essence we see that fun is something that is an end in itself; it is pleasurable. Today pleasure, fun, and entertainment are synonymous. Fun is not sinful in itself; but oh what a powerful weapon it is in the hands of God's enemies.

Remember from Part 6 of this series, I said, "One way to confirm a deception is to see if Satan promotes it and what the Lord's position is on it." In these next verses we see both Satan's promotion and the Lord's condemnation of pleasure. "This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God" (2 Timothy 3:1-4). Doesn't that seem to describe what we observe today?

Let me remind you of one of the protections from deception from Part 3 of this series. "By directing us to what edifies, He doesn't have to have an endless list of things that we can't do. When we focus on what is good, then what is harmful is not a danger." Is that what we find in churches today, or are we also seeing this love of pleasure soundly advancing upon the professing church? I expect it would take little objectivity on our part to look no further than the calendars of many churches to see that to which God's people are being drawn. Is it fun or is it edifying?

First, we could consider the youth activities that are the training grounds for the church leaders of tomorrow. What do we see? Is fun the bait used to draw the church's youth and outsiders to the group, or is it edifying pursuits? What is used to bring them in must be used to keep them too. When observing the youth, do you see sober teens or silly, fun-loving teens? Paul warns, "Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded" (Titus 2:6). A diet of fun does not lead youth to be sober and service minded.

Next, it would be good to look at the church activities for the adults, especially the men. Again, are they edifying or fun? I understand the churches' justification of the use of fun is to draw men in the doors of the church, but sarcastically I question: Did not Jesus, the God of creation, think of this? If this was a good thing, why did Jesus not use fun things to draw men to Him? It wasn't because it wouldn't be effective since we know that man is drawn to pleasure. I believe Jesus didn't use fun to bring men to Himself because it would not have been edifying. It wouldn't produce the fruit that He desires in us.

Often we receive e-mails from moms seeking encouragement because their husbands waste precious time on fun things, while discipling the children and the needs of the home are left untouched. Every hour men spend doing fun things is one less hour available to do that which is worthwhile, that which is edifying. Our time on earth is so short. How will it be used—on fun things or those activities that bear eternal fruit?

Here is another verse where we find God's mind on pleasures and fun. Jesus tells us plainly in the parable of the unfruitful seed sown the result of pleasure in a life. "And that which fell among thorns are they, which, when they have heard, go forth, and are choked with cares and riches and pleasures of this life, and bring no fruit to perfection" (Luke 8:14). The pleasures of this world will choke out the fruitfulness of a believer's life. Wouldn't that be a delight to Satan? We see the truth of God's Word being lived out today in our now-pagan nation. I believe that the professing church's effectiveness in reaching a lost and dying world, has been quite effectively neutered by the power of fun. Balaam rides again.

To determine whether or not we are being deceived, we might look to our lives and see what place fun and entertainment have in relation to spiritual fruit bearing activities such as time in the Word, serving the Lord, discipling our children, and serving our families. It would be good for each one to do a Bible study and try to find out how God's men used their time. I'll give you a hint. They didn't spend time being entertained—the Romans did that at the coliseum. "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works" (2 Timothy 3:16-17). I believe Scripture teaches we are here on this planet to be instruments of righteousness (Romans 6:19) in our Savior's hands.

Another test of whether we have fallen victim to the deception of fun might come from Part 2 of this series. "First, we can see that when we have a negative attitude toward God's clear commands, we open ourselves up to false doctrine." 1 Corinthians 10:23 says, "All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not." Do we have a negative attitude toward this directive from the Lord? Do we think we deserve to spend some time having fun? Does it sound too confining and unrealistic to evaluate activities to see if they are edifying? Do we set in the balances edifying time and fun time, considering it acceptable if edifying tips the scale over fun? Remember Eve's response when the serpent questioned her on God's command?

This is a heavy discussion of a deception. For many years, my family and I were victims of this deception. It was only through our time in the Word and choosing to follow after that which is edifying that the Lord began to open our eyes to fun's delusion. The Lord has used this change in our family's focus to so transform us that we want to challenge others to evaluate whether they are being deceived and then to encourage them that they will be happy with a path away from fun if they were to choose it.

Next month we will look more into fun's deception, what we receive when we avoid fun, and what we can do if we don't look for fun.

Steve Maxwell

Steven Maxwell, co-author of Managers of Their Homes, Managers of Their Chores, Keeping Our Children's Hearts, Just Around the Corner (Vols. 1 & 2), and author of Preparing Sons to Provide for a Single-Income Family. He also did a two hour CD album on family devotions, Feed My Sheep: A Practical Guide to Daily Family Devotions.

Steve Maxwell is the father of eight children. His family began homeschooling in 1985. In 1997, the Lord brought Steve home to run his own business, and he now enjoys the privilege of working with his three grown sons and one grown daughter. Steve is a homeschool conference speaker and has been writing monthly articles of encouragement for dads since 1990.

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