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Dimensions: 16"x21 15/16" Paper Weight: Normal (laminating after you receive it it helps protect the chart, as well as make it so that you can change your consquences as the need arises)
The If/Then Chart was one of the most instrumental tools we found for helping us deal consistently with our children's misbehavior. Before using the If/Then Chart, Teri would often become angry with the children when they were doing something they shouldn't or not doing what they should. She knew they needed a consequence but wouldn't know what a reasonable one would be. Therefore, there were times she gave no consequence when she should have and other times when the consequence was stronger than it should have been. The If/Then Chart changed all that. Steve and Teri sat down, discussed, and prayed about consequences. They added behavior their children needed help with that wasn't on the chart, and they chose their own verses for some of the sections. Because they had a wide age range of children, for a while they had younger children consequences and older children consequences. Before Teri laminated her chart and started using dry erase markers to fill in the consequences, she wrote the consequences on small sticky notes so she could change them if necessary. When a child misbehaved, Teri took the child to the chart, read the problem, verse, and consequence. It was all laid out for her, which helped her be consistent and not be angry with the children when they needed correction. She loved using the If/Then Chart. The If-Then Chart costs $6.00. To order online, click the Add to Cart button above. For a good old fashioned order form that you can print out and mail in (with a check), click here. HINT: We colored our family's chart and had it laminated. We then wrote the consequences with a dry-erase marker, making it easy to change as the children grew older or we felt we needed to change something. Please remember - this is not how your chart will look like when you receive it.
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